Social psychologist and researcher Justin Lehmiller conducted one of the largest surveys on sexual fantasies in the United States, involving over 4,000 participants. This book aims to shed light on the nature of sexual desire, debunk myths, and provide practical advice. It’s cleverly packed with modern references to popular media, including movies, TV shows, and books, to illustrate how sexual fantasies are portrayed and perceived in modern culture.

A rip roaring, well researched, illustrated romp through (some) sexual history. Plenty to learn via Kate’s feminist voice and to ultimately discover, that there really is nothing new under the sun when it comes to sex.

Clear, thorough & empowering

Intuitive, wise & healing

Paradigm busting, radical & still relevant

luminous, heart wrenching & urgent

Articulate, thorough & vital

Diverse, historical & powerful

Clear, fun & frank

Honest, funny & uplifting

Beautiful, must read

Descriptive, interesting & informative

Authentic, timely & needed.