A clear and relatable critique of hidden inequities in a married with kids and a good income home. Rodsky suggests that most relationships still operate under outdated and inequitable systems where women are expected to "take care of it all”. This expectation is deeply ingrained in cultural norms and can lead to burnout, resentment, and conflict. While not everyone will relate to the cards system, it is a practical solution to the division of labour and one that can be taken metaphorically while still making the invisible work women do, visible and then divisible.